(3/21/01)
"But after knowing what it is we must teach, it is equally important
to
know how to teach gospel truths to our families. This matter of how to
teach is
something we must learn for ourselves through study, experience, and
the
guidance of the Holy Spirit, which 'shall be given unto you by the
prayer of
faith.' (D&C 42:14.) Whatever our method, however, we should
remember that
our teaching, to be successful and effective, must convince our
children that
living the gospel is the way to happiness. If they feel that the
discipline,
attitudes, and practices to which they are subject are arbitrary, that
without
reason they restrict their activities and keep them from enjoying
life, they
will conform only so long as we have them under our immediate
influence." — Marion G. Romney, "Let Us Set in Order
Our Own Houses," Ensign, Jan. 1985, p. 5
(3/22/01)
"The price of discipleship is obedience. In many languages, the word
disciple has the same root as the word discipline. Self-discipline and
self-control are consistent and permanent characteristics of the
followers of
Jesus." — James E. Faust, "The
Price of Discipleship," Ensign, Apr. 1999, p. 2
(3/23/01)
"In the Lord’s plan, parents are to teach their children during the
impressionable and formative years when they develop attitudes and
habits that
last a lifetime. President Brigham Young wisely recognized that 'the
time of
youth and early manhood is the proper time' to gain mastery over
bodily
appetites and passions. He warned that 'the man who suffers his
passions to lead
him becomes a slave to them, and such a man will find the work of
emancipation
an exceedingly difficult one.' (Letters of Brigham Young to His Sons,
ed. Dean
C. Jessee, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1974, p. 130.)" — Joseph
B. Wirthlin, "Fruits of the
Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ," Ensign, Nov. 1991, p. 16
(3/24/01)
"We cannot excuse ourselves or rationalize or justify even the
smallest
things in our lives that we need to master. We must work to overcome
them. We
can become the masters of our own destinies by practicing
self-discipline, by
setting worthy goals that will lead to higher ground so that we can
become what
our Heavenly Father wants us to become." — M.
Russell Ballard, "Do Things That Make a Difference," Ensign, June
1983, p. 74
(3/25/01)
"Fasting helps to teach us self-mastery. It helps us to gain the
discipline
we need to have control over ourselves." — L.
Tom Perry, "The Law of the Fast," Ensign, May 1986, p. 32
(7/2/04)
"The greatest mystery a man ever learned, is to know how to control
the
human mind, and bring every faculty and power of the same in
subjection to Jesus
Christ; this is the greatest mystery we have to learn while in these
tabernacles
of clay." - Brigham Young, "Journal of Discourses," 26 vols.
[London: Latter-day Saints' Book Depot, 1854-1886], 1:47
7/19/08
"President
Harold B. Lee once said, 'Most
men do not set priorities to guide them in allocating their time and
most men forget that the first priority should be to maintain their
own spiritual and physical strength; then comes their family; then the
Church, and then their professions, and all need time.'
In giving time to his children, a father should be able to
demonstrate that he has enough love for his children to commend as
well as discipline them. Children want and need discipline. As they
approach some dangers, they are silently pleading, 'Don't
let me do it.' President McKay
said that if we do not adequately discipline our children, society
will discipline them in a way we may not like. Wise discipline
reinforces the dimensions of eternal love. This reinforcement can
bring great security and stability into their lives."
- James E. Faust, "To Reach Even unto You," p.59
3/3/15
The instructions on how to correct are clear and simple: early on,
with the peace of the Holy Ghost, and with enough of the healing
power within us to make sure that self-esteem is never wounded,
ensuring always that the individual feels important and capable. - Dallas
N. Archibald, “Born
of Goodly Parents,” Ensign (CR) October 1992