(3/9/97)
"From the most exemplary life of all, even that of the Savior Jesus
Christ, we learn perhaps the most important lesson of all . As the
Savior was in the depths of suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane, he
prayed that the bitter cup might pass from him, adding in meekness and
lowliness of heart, 'Nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done'
(Luke 22:42; italics added). A leader in the Lord's kingdom must be
meek and lowly of heart (see, Alma 37:34)." — Elder Spencer J. Condie,
General Conference, April 1990
(3/10/97)
"What a thrill it was the other day to be visiting with one of our
handsome full-time Navajo Indian missionaries when he said, 'The main
reason I'm on a mission today is because when I was a small boy,
President Spencer W. Kimball came into our home, patted me on the
head, placed a silver dollar in my hand, and said, 'Take this and
start saving for a mission.'' Wrapped up in that example of leadership
are all of the important parts: recognition, encouragement, challenge,
and example. To bring groups back, we must learn to lead the
individual back through patience and love. Good leaders don't give up.
Good parents don't give up. Good youth don't give up." — Elder Marvin
J. Ashton, Improvement Era, June 1970, p.42
(3/11/97)
"You are the men holding the priesthood and the leaders in your
communities. From you we expect the real leadership. We hope you are
going [to go] back to your homes and give better leadership to your
homes and families, that you will teach and discipline your children,
that you will be to your household as Christ is to the Church, that
you will be kind to your wives and love your wives more than you love
yourselves, and as you go back to your branches, that you will rule in
kindness. There is no reason why anyone who holds the priesthood
should become like Hitler. There is no place in this Church for
masters or slaves. We are all equal, although we are deacons or
apostles. We have callings and responsibilities but we are all the
sons of God and there is no reason for anyone to rise up in his
majesty when he has a position of responsibility, and no place for any
leader to lord it over others just because he has authority. The
Savior who was the head of the Church never ruled by force, but by
kindness and long-suffering and love. So you branch presidents and you
counselors go back and with greater love than ever before seek to give
leadership to your branch as Christ does to the Church. Unlike the
world, when we supervise, it should not be out of a need for status or
need to control, but out of the desire to serve others and to help
them in a way that increases their righteous capacity." — The
Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, p.485
(3/12/97)
"In few things is genuine meekness so essential as it is in the
opportunities and responsibilities in connection with power. As we
ponder the experiences of followership and leadership in the Church,
certain lessons emerge. In one way or another, each of these lessons
turns upon the meekness factor. If we in our leadership assignments
take upon us the yoke of Jesus, we soon begin to learn of Jesus as a
result of those leadership experiences. Appreciation of Christ then
deepens into adoration." — Neal A. Maxwell, Meek and Lowly,
p.17
(3/13/97)
"In this world upheaval, in this day of wanton destruction, we, as a
people must look upward. There must be trust and faith in our hearts.
Hope must walk by our side. We must remember charity also. We must
treasure the warm words of the Father to His Church, 'Be of good
cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by
you.' (D & C 68:6) We who have been called to leadership in the
Church of Christ must lead our people from anxiety and fear and doubt,
to trust and faith in the Lord, and certainty in the outcome of the
Lord's plan of salvation. We must repeat with gladness the words of
the Lord, 'Fear not, let your hearts be comforted; yea, rejoice
evermore, and in everything give thanks.' (D & C 98:1)" — John A.
Widtsoe, General Conference 1942
(3/14/97)
"Paul says: 'Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto
the Lord.
'For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head
of the church. . . .
'Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and
gave himself for it.
'So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth
his wife loveth himself.
'For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and
cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church.' (Eph. 5:22, 23, 25,
28-29.) This is often misunderstood, both by husbands and by wives.
Consider it well, and do not contend nor argue with your Heavenly
Father. When a man gives leadership in his home as Christ gives
leadership in his church, little else can be desired." — Spencer W.
Kimball, General Conference, April 1974
(3/15/97)
"Another great leader who continually sought the will of the Lord was
the Prophet Joseph Smith. His very life exemplified Paul's admonition
to live the gospel that we preach (see 1 Corinthians 9:14). A great
strength of the Prophet was his ability to delegate and develop
leadership skills in those around him. The expedition of Zion's Camp
is but one example of Joseph's leadership based upon the principle
'Come, follow me' (see Luke 18:22). At the conclusion of Zion's Camp,
the Prophet gave the newly organized high council detailed
instructions regarding their callings and then told them, 'If I should
now be taken away, I [have] accomplished the great work the Lord [has]
-laid before me' (History of the Church, 2:124). Long before his
martyrdom the Prophet Joseph was diligently training those who would
continue to lead the kingdom after he was gone. Here is another
important lesson of leadership: Leaders are duty bound and obligated
to prepare others to take their place at some future time. Brothers
and sisters, the cemeteries are filled with leaders who thought they
were indispensable." — Spencer J. Condie, General Conference, April
1990
(3/16/97)
"My friends, there are footprints to follow where we must go — made
not by a leader who said, safely from the sidelines, 'Go thither,' but
by a leader who said, 'Come follow me.' And our mortal leader is a
prophet who is showing us how to lengthen our stride." — Neal A.
Maxwell, General Conference, October 1974
(1/21/04)
"Lehi and his family knew something of the perils of the wilderness.
Indeed, for Lehi, life was a wilderness. He and his family also knew
something of the lifesaving qualities of a reliable compass. The
Liahona provided their direction through the desert. Its directing
capability came not from a magnetic field but rather 'according to the
faith and diligence and heed' ( 1
Ne. 16:28 ) which Lehi and
his family gave to the directions that appeared on this compass." -
Lance B. Wickman, " Of
Compasses and Covenants ,"
Ensign, June 1996, p. 38
10/11/07
"As General Authorities of the Church, we are just the same as you
are, and you are just the same as we are. You have the same access to
the powers of revelation for your families and for your work and for
your callings as we do.
"It is also true that there is an order to things in the Church. When you are called to an office, you then receive revelation that belongs to that office that would not be given to others.
"No member of the Church is esteemed by the Lord as more or less than any other. It just does not work that way! Remember, He is a father—our Father. The Lord is 'no respecter of persons.'" - Boyd K. Packer, "The Weak and the Simple of the Church," General Conference, 6 October 2007
11/22/07
"Jesus aimed to make of every man a king, to
build him in leadership into eternity. On that memorable night after
the last supper, He said to the eleven (after Judas had slunk out
into the night to go about his dark mission), 'Verily, verily, I say
unto you, he that believeth in me, the works that I do shall he do
also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my
Father' (John
14:12). Through delegating, Jesus desired to lift, rather than
suppress the individual. And all through the Church today, men and
women are growing in stature through positions delegated to them." -
Ezra Taft Benson, "The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson," p.380
1/9/09
"Those who know me best have
heard me say before that each of us has our own zone of influence. How
am I using my influence? How are you? Are we leading our fellowmen up
the path to higher, greater achievements? Or are we despoiling our
leadership qualities by helping others in the paths of folly,
unbelief, bitterness, and unhappiness? We lead by example."
- John Longden, "Conference
Report," April 1969,
Afternoon Session, p.145
7/25/09
“There
can be no greater aspect to righteous living than to feel the
regenerative force of striving to do better. There is no member
listening here this morning, or over the air waves, who has come
anywhere near in accomplishing what he actually is capable of; none
have reached their full potential of leadership in the Church. This
means that throughout the Church in all of the facets of its
organization, members, teachers, officers, bishoprics, high
councils, stake presidencies, and others, the challenge is before us
today to step up to leadership, to step up to real membership in
God's kingdom.” - Alvin R. Dyer,
“Conference Report,” October 1962, First Day—Morning Meeting, p.
12
10/13/15
Looking for human weakness in
others is rather easy. However, we make a serious mistake by
noticing only the human nature of one another and then failing to
see God’s hand working through those He has called. - M.
Russell Ballard, “God
Is at the Helm,” Ensign (CR) November 2015
4/20/16
If I were to ask
you, “Who is the greatest leader who ever lived?”—what would you
say? The answer, of course, is Jesus Christ. He sets the perfect
example of every imaginable leadership quality.
But what if I were to ask you, “Who is the greatest follower who
ever lived?”—wouldn’t the answer again be Jesus Christ? He is the
greatest leader because He is the greatest follower—He follows His
Father perfectly, in all things. - Stephen
W. Owen, "The
Greatest Leaders Are the Greatest Followers,” Ensign (CR)
May 2016