It is important to observe that the government in the family follows the patriarchal pattern, differing in some respects from priesthood leadership in the Church.¹⁸ The patriarchal pattern entails that wives and husbands are accountable directly to God for the fulfillment of their sacred responsibilities in the family. It calls for a full partnership—a willing compliance with every principle of righteousness and accountability—and provides opportunities for development within an environment of love and mutual helpfulness.¹⁹ These special responsibilities do not imply hierarchy and absolutely exclude any kind of abuse or improper use of authority. – Ulisses Soares, “In Partnership with the Lord,” Ensign (CR) October 2022